{"id":893,"date":"2025-03-22T12:23:30","date_gmt":"2025-03-22T12:23:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/?p=893"},"modified":"2025-03-22T12:33:26","modified_gmt":"2025-03-22T12:33:26","slug":"%ec%b2%ab-%eb%b2%88%ec%a7%b8-%eb%a9%94%ec%8b%9c%ec%a7%80-%eb%a7%a4%ec%b9%ad-%ec%8b%9c-%ed%95%b4%ec%95%bc-%ed%95%a0-%eb%a7%90%ea%b3%bc-%ed%95%98%ec%a7%80-%eb%a7%90%ec%95%84%ec%95%bc-%ed%95%a0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/primeira-mensagem-o-que-dizer-e-o-que-nao-dizer-ao-dar-match\/","title":{"rendered":"\uccab \ubc88\uc9f8 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0: \ub9e4\uce6d \uc2dc \ub9d0\ud574\uc57c \ud560 \uac83(\uacfc \ub9d0\ud558\uc9c0 \ub9d0\uc544\uc57c \ud560 \uac83)"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>\ub9e4\uce6d\uc774 \ub418\uc168\ub098\uc694? \uc774\uc81c \ub300\ud654\ub97c \ud1b5\ud574 \ub2f9\uc2e0\uc758 \ub9e4\ub825\uc744 \ubf50\ub0bc \uc2dc\uac04\uc785\ub2c8\ub2e4. \ucc98\uc74c\ubd80\ud130 \uc644\ubcbd\ud558\uac8c \ub300\ud654\ub97c \uc2dc\uc791\ud558\uace0 &quot;\ub178\uc1fc&quot;\ub77c\ub294 \ubd88\ubbf8\uc2a4\ub7ec\uc6b4 \uc0c1\ud669\uc744 \ud53c\ud558\ub294 \ubc29\ubc95\uc744 \uc54c\uc544\ubcf4\uc138\uc694.<\/h2>\n<h3>\uc18c\uac1c<\/h3>\n<p>\ub9c8\uc74c\uc5d0 \ub4dc\ub294 \uc0c1\ub300\ub97c \ucc3e\uc544 \ub9e4\uce6d\uc5d0 \uc131\uacf5\ud588\ub294\ub370\u2026 \uc774\uc81c \uc5b4\ub5bb\uac8c \ud574\uc57c \ud560\uae4c\uc694? \uccab \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub294 \uadf8 \ub9e4\uce6d\uc744 \uc9c4\uc815\ud55c \ub300\ud654\ub85c \ubc1c\uc804\uc2dc\ud0a4\ub294 \ub370 \uc788\uc5b4 \ub9e4\uc6b0 \uc911\uc694\ud55c \uc21c\uac04\uc785\ub2c8\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \ubbff\uc73c\uc138\uc694. \uccab \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub97c \uc798 \ubcf4\ub0b4\uba74 \ub300\ud654\uac00 \ud65c\ubc1c\ud558\uac8c \uc774\uc5b4\uc9c0\ub290\ub0d0, \uc544\ub2c8\uba74 \uadf8 \uc790\ub9ac\uc5d0\uc11c \ub05d\ub098\ubc84\ub9ac\ub290\ub0d0\uc758 \ucc28\uc774\ub97c \ub9cc\ub4e4\uc5b4\ub0bc \uc218 \uc788\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/p>\n<p>\uc774 \uae00\uc5d0\uc11c\ub294 \ub2e4\uc74c \ub0b4\uc6a9\uc744 \ud655\uc778\ud560 \uc218 \uc788\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4. <strong>\ud6a8\uacfc\uc801\uc778 \ubc29\ubc95 (\uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \ud6a8\uacfc\uc801\uc774\uc9c0 \uc54a\uc740 \ubc29\ubc95)<\/strong> \ub370\uc774\ud305 \uc571\uc5d0\uc11c \ub300\ud654\ub97c \uc2dc\uc791\ud558\ub824\uace0 \ud560 \ub54c.<\/p>\n<h3>\uccab \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\uc5d0\uc11c \uc808\ub300 \ud574\uc11c\ub294 \uc548 \ub420 \ub9d0<\/h3>\n<p>\ud6a8\uacfc\uc801\uc778 \ubc29\ubc95\uc744 \ub17c\ud558\uae30 \uc804\uc5d0, \uc0ac\ub78c\ub4e4\uc774 \ud765\ubbf8\ub97c \ub290\ub07c\uc9c0 \ubabb\ud558\uac8c \ud558\uac70\ub098 \uac70\ubd80\uac10\uc744 \uc77c\uc73c\ud0a4\ub294 \uac00\uc7a5 \ud754\ud55c \uc2e4\uc218\ub4e4\uc744 \uc0b4\ud3b4\ubcf4\uaca0\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u201c&quot;\uc548\ub155\ud558\uc138\uc694, \uc798 \uc9c0\ub0b4\uc138\uc694?&quot;\u201d<\/strong> \ub108\ubb34 \ubed4\ud574\uc694. \uac8c\uc73c\ub984\uc744 \ub4dc\ub7ec\ub0b4\uace0 \ub2f5\uae00\uc744 \ub2ec\uace0 \uc2f6\uc740 \ub9c8\uc74c\uc774 \uc0dd\uae30\uc9c0 \uc54a\uc544\uc694.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u201c&quot;\uc624\ub79c\ub9cc\uc774\uc57c.&quot;\u201d<\/strong> \uc7ac\ubbf8\uc5c6\uc744 \ubfd0\ub9cc \uc544\ub2c8\ub77c \uc9c4\ubd80\ud558\uace0, \ucc98\uc74c \ubd24\uc744 \ub54c\ub294 \uc774\ud574\uac00 \uc798 \uc548 \ub41c\ub2e4.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub97c \ubcf5\uc0ac\ud558\uac70\ub098 \ubd99\uc5ec\ub123\uc5c8\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/strong> \u2013 \ubc14\ub85c \uc54c \uc218 \uc788\uc5b4\uc694. \uc9c4\uc815\uc131\uc774 \ubd80\uc871\ud558\ub2e4\ub294 \uac78 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc8fc\uc8e0.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\uce68\uc2b5\uc801\uc778 \uc2e0\uccb4\uc801 \ubc1c\uc5b8<\/strong> \uac15\uc555\uc801\uc774\uac70\ub098 \uc131\uc801\uc778 \uce6d\ucc2c\uc740 \uc560\ucd08\uc5d0 \ud53c\ud574\uc57c \ud569\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\uccab \ubc88\uc9f8 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\uc5d0\uc11c \ud6a8\uacfc\uc801\uc778 \uac83\uc740 \ubb34\uc5c7\uc77c\uae4c\uc694?<\/h3>\n<p>\uc774\uc81c\uc57c \uc880 \ub0ab\ub124\uc694! \uc88b\uc740 \ub300\ud654\ub97c \uc2dc\uc791\ud560 \uac00\ub2a5\uc131\uc744 \ub192\uc774\ub294 \uba87 \uac00\uc9c0 \ubc29\ubc95\uc744 \uc54c\ub824\ub4dc\ub9b4\uac8c\uc694.<\/p>\n<h4>1. \ud504\ub85c\ud544\uc5d0 \ub313\uae00\uc744 \ub0a8\uaca8\uc8fc\uc138\uc694<\/h4>\n<p>\uc9c4\uc2ec\uc73c\ub85c \uad00\uc2ec\uc744 \ubcf4\uc778\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc744 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc8fc\uc138\uc694. \uc608\uc2dc:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;\uc778\ub514 \uc74c\uc545\uc744 \uc88b\uc544\ud558\uc2dc\ub294 \uac78 \ubd24\ub294\ub370... \uae30\uc5b5\uc5d0 \ub0a8\ub294 \ucf58\uc11c\ud2b8\uc5d0 \uac00\ubcf4\uc2e0 \uc801 \uc788\uc73c\uc138\uc694?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>2. \uac00\ubccd\uace0 \ucc3d\uc758\uc801\uc778 \uc720\uba38<\/h4>\n<p>\uc801\uc808\ud55c \uc704\uce58\uc5d0 \uc788\ub294 \ub18d\ub2f4\uc740 \uc5b4\uc0c9\ud55c \ubd84\uc704\uae30\ub97c \ud480\uc5b4\uc90d\ub2c8\ub2e4. \uc608\uc2dc:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;\ub9cc\uc57d \uc6b0\ub9ac\uac00 \uc601\ud654 \uc18d \uac00\uc0c1\uc758 \ucee4\ud50c\uc774\ub77c\uba74, \ub85c\ub9e8\ud2f1 \ucf54\ubbf8\ub514\uc77c\uae4c\uc694, \uc544\ub2c8\uba74 \uc2ec\ub9ac \uc2a4\ub9b4\ub7ec\uc77c\uae4c\uc694?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>3. \ucc3d\uc758\uc801\uc778 \uc9c8\ubb38<\/h4>\n<p>\uc7ac\ubc0c\uac70\ub098 \uc0c9\ub2e4\ub978 \uc9c8\ubb38\uc744 \ud558\uba74 \ub180\ub77c\uc6b4 \uacb0\uacfc\ub97c \uac00\uc838\uc62c \uc218 \uc788\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4. \uc608\ub97c \ub4e4\uc5b4:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;\uc544\uce68\uc73c\ub85c \ucc28\uac00\uc6b4 \ud53c\uc790\ub97c \ub4dc\uc2dc\ub294 \uac78 \uc88b\uc544\ud558\uc138\uc694, \uc544\ub2c8\uba74 \uc800\ub141\uc73c\ub85c \uc544\uc774\uc2a4\ud06c\ub9bc\uc744 \ub4dc\uc2dc\ub294 \uac78 \uc88b\uc544\ud558\uc138\uc694?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>4. \uacf5\ud1b5\uc810\uc744 \uc5b8\uae09\ud568<\/h4>\n<p>\uc571\uc5d0\uc11c \uacf5\ud1b5 \uad00\uc2ec\uc0ac\ub098 \ucde8\ud5a5\uc774 \ubcf4\uc774\uba74 \uc774\ub97c \ud65c\uc6a9\ud558\uc138\uc694.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;\ub2f9\uc2e0\ub3c4 \ud574\ubcc0 \uc5ec\ud589\uc744 \uc88b\uc544\ud558\uc2dc\ub098\uc694? \uc774\ubbf8 \uc88b\uc544\ud558\ub294 \uc5ec\ud589\uc9c0\uac00 \uc788\uc73c\uc2e0\uac00\uc694?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>\ud669\uae08 \ud301: \ud56d\uc0c1 \uac1c\uc778\ud654\ud558\uc138\uc694.<\/h3>\n<p>\ud68d\uc77c\uc801\uc778 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub294 \uae30\uacc4\uc801\uc73c\ub85c \uc791\uc131\ub41c \uac83\ucc98\ub7fc \ubcf4\uc785\ub2c8\ub2e4. \uac1c\uc778\uc801\uc778 \uc138\ubd80 \uc0ac\ud56d\uc740 \ub178\ub825\uacfc \uad00\uc2ec\uc744 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc90d\ub2c8\ub2e4. \uc0c1\ub300\ubc29\uc758 \ud504\ub85c\ud544\uacfc \uc5f0\uacb0\ub41c \uac04\ub2e8\ud55c \ubb38\uad6c\ub77c\ub3c4 \ud070 \uc601\ud5a5\uc744 \ubbf8\uce60 \uc218 \uc788\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/p>\n<h3>\ube60\ub978 \uc694\uc57d<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\u274c &quot;\uc548\ub155\ud558\uc138\uc694, \uc798 \uc9c0\ub0b4\uc138\uc694?&quot;\uc640 \uac19\uc740 \ud615\uc2dd\uc801\uc778 \uce6d\ucc2c\uc740 \ud53c\ud558\uc138\uc694.<\/li>\n<li>\u2705 \uc0c1\ub300\ubc29 \ud504\ub85c\ud544\uc5d0 \ub313\uae00\uc744 \ub0a8\uaca8\uc8fc\uc138\uc694.<\/li>\n<li>\ud83d\ude02 \uac00\ubccd\uace0 \uc9c4\uc194\ud55c \uc720\uba38\ub97c \uc0ac\uc6a9\ud558\uc138\uc694.<\/li>\n<li>\ud83c\udfaf \ud754\uce58 \uc54a\uc740 \uc9c8\ubb38\uc744 \ud574\ubcf4\uc138\uc694<\/li>\n<li>\ud83d\udd0d \uc811\uadfc \ubc29\uc2dd\uc744 \uac1c\uc778\ud654\ud558\uc138\uc694<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\uacb0\ub860<\/h3>\n<p>\uccab \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub294 \uc644\ubcbd\ud560 \ud544\uc694\ub294 \uc5c6\uc9c0\ub9cc, \ubb34\uc5b8\uac00\ub97c \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc918\uc57c \ud569\ub2c8\ub2e4. <strong>\ud765\ubbf8, \ucc3d\uc758\uc131, \uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \uac00\ubcbc\uc6c0<\/strong>. \uc798 \uc9dc\uc5ec\uc9c4 \uc811\uadfc \ubc29\uc2dd\uc744 \ucde8\ud558\uba74 \uc774\ubbf8 \uc720\ub9ac\ud55c \uc704\uce58\uc5d0 \uc11c\uac8c \ub418\uba70, \uc6d0\ud65c\ud55c \ub300\ud654\uac00 \uc774\ub8e8\uc5b4\uc9c8 \uac00\ub2a5\uc131\uc744 \ud06c\uac8c \ub192\uc77c \uc218 \uc788\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\ub9c8\uc9c0\ub9c9 \ud301:<\/strong> \ub204\uad70\uac00\uc640 \uc9c1\uc811 \ub9cc\ub098 \ub300\ud654\ub97c \ub098\ub208\ub2e4\uace0 \uc0c1\uc0c1\ud574 \ubcf4\uc138\uc694. \uc5b4\uc0c9\ud55c \ubd84\uc704\uae30\ub97c \ud480\uae30 \uc704\ud574 \uc5b4\ub5a4 \ub9d0\uc744 \ud558\uc2dc\uaca0\uc5b4\uc694? \uadf8 \uacbd\ud5d8\uc744 \uc571\uc5d0 \uc801\uc6a9\ud574 \ubcf4\uc138\uc694. \uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \uc788\ub294 \uadf8\ub300\ub85c\uc758 \uc790\uc2e0\uc744 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc8fc\uc138\uc694!<\/p>\n<h3>\ub354 \ud0d0\uc0c9\ud558\uae30<\/h3>\n<p>\uce74\ud14c\uace0\ub9ac\uc5d0\uc11c \uacc4\uc18d <strong>\ud301<\/strong> ~\uc758 <strong>\ub370\uc774\ud2b8\ubab9\uc2a4<\/strong> \ub9e4\uce6d\ub41c \uc0c1\ub300\uc640 \ub354 \ud6a8\uacfc\uc801\uc73c\ub85c \uc18c\ud1b5\ud558\uace0 \ub300\ud654\ub97c \uc2e4\uc81c \ub370\uc774\ud2b8\ub85c \ubc1c\uc804\uc2dc\ud0a4\ub294 \ubc29\ubc95\uc744 \ubc30\uc6b0\uae30 \uc704\ud574\uc11c\uc785\ub2c8\ub2e4.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deu match? Agora \u00e9 a hora de brilhar na conversa. Veja como mandar bem logo de in\u00edcio e evitar o famoso &#8220;v\u00e1cuo&#8221;. Introdu\u00e7\u00e3o Voc\u00ea deslizou, deu match e&#8230; agora? A primeira mensagem \u00e9 o momento-chave para transformar aquele match em uma conversa real. E acredite: come\u00e7ar bem pode fazer toda a diferen\u00e7a entre um papo &#8230; <a title=\"\uccab \ubc88\uc9f8 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0: \ub9e4\uce6d \uc2dc \ub9d0\ud574\uc57c \ud560 \uac83(\uacfc \ub9d0\ud558\uc9c0 \ub9d0\uc544\uc57c \ud560 \uac83)\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/primeira-mensagem-o-que-dizer-e-o-que-nao-dizer-ao-dar-match\/\" aria-label=\"\uccab \ubc88\uc9f8 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0: \uc131\ub0e5\uc744 \uc904 \ub54c \ud574\uc57c \ud560 \ub9d0(\uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \ub9d0\ud558\uc9c0 \ub9d0\uc544\uc57c \ud560 \uac83)\uc5d0 \ub300\ud574 \ub354 \uc790\uc138\ud788 \uc54c\uc544\ubcf4\uc138\uc694\">\ub354 \uc77d\uc5b4\ubcf4\uc138\uc694<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":894,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-893","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dicas"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/893","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=893"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/893\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":895,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/893\/revisions\/895"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/894"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=893"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=893"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=893"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}