{"id":893,"date":"2025-03-22T12:23:30","date_gmt":"2025-03-22T12:23:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/?p=893"},"modified":"2025-03-22T12:33:26","modified_gmt":"2025-03-22T12:33:26","slug":"tin-nhan-dau-tien-nen-noi-gi-va-khong-nen-noi-gi-khi-mai-moi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/primeira-mensagem-o-que-dizer-e-o-que-nao-dizer-ao-dar-match\/","title":{"rendered":"Tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean: N\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec (v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec) khi k\u1ebft \u0111\u00f4i"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ch\u01b0a? Gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y xem c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eadt \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng &quot;kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n&quot; \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3.<\/h2>\n<h3>Gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u<\/h3>\n<p>B\u1ea1n vu\u1ed1t sang ph\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gh\u00e9p \u0111\u00f4i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, v\u00e0\u2026 gi\u1edd th\u00ec sao? Tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gh\u00e9p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. V\u00e0 h\u00e3y tin t\u00f4i: b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ebft y\u1ec3u ngay t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7.<\/p>\n<p>Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 <strong>\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 (v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3)<\/strong> Khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2.<\/p>\n<h3>Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u KH\u00d4NG n\u00ean n\u00f3i trong tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean<\/h3>\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi e ng\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng thu h\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u201c&quot;Ch\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?&quot;\u201d<\/strong> Qu\u00e1 chung chung. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u201c&quot;Ch\u00e0o, l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p!&quot;\u201d<\/strong> Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 tho\u1ea1t nh\u00ecn th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sao ch\u00e9p ho\u1eb7c d\u00e1n<\/strong> \u2013 B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/strong> H\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh ngay nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p ho\u1eb7c mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec HI\u1ec6U QU\u1ea2 trong tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean?<\/h3>\n<p>Tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi! D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb:<\/p>\n<h4>1. B\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn tr\u00ean trang c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/h4>\n<p>H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n th\u00edch nh\u1ea1c indie... b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i xem bu\u1ed5i h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb ch\u01b0a?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>2. H\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o<\/h4>\n<p>M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u trong phim, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 phim h\u00e0i l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n hay phim kinh d\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>3. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o<\/h4>\n<p>\u0110\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u00fa v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. V\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;B\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u0103n pizza ngu\u1ed9i v\u00e0o b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng hay \u0103n kem v\u00e0o b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i h\u01a1n?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>4. \u0110\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec3m chung<\/h4>\n<p>N\u1ebfu \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 chung s\u1edf th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecb hi\u1ebfu, h\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201c&quot;B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u00edch \u0111i du l\u1ecbch bi\u1ec3n ch\u1ee9? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn y\u00eau th\u00edch n\u00e0o ch\u01b0a?&quot;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0ng: lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u00f3a.<\/h3>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn chung chung nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. M\u1ed9t chi ti\u1ebft c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u00f3a th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m. Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n<h3>T\u00f3m t\u1eaft nhanh<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\u274c Tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi x\u00e3 giao nh\u01b0 &quot;Ch\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?&quot; v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng.<\/li>\n<li>\u2705 H\u00e3y b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00ean trang c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/li>\n<li>\ud83d\ude02 H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1ed1i h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/li>\n<li>\ud83c\udfaf H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/li>\n<li>\ud83d\udd0d C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u00f3a c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Ph\u1ea7n k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/h3>\n<p>Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u2014 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. <strong>s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng<\/strong>. V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm ch\u1eafc ph\u1ea7n th\u1eafng v\u00e0 t\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n su\u00f4n s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng:<\/strong> H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u? H\u00e3y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng \u2013 v\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n<h3>Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u00eam<\/h3>\n<p>Ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c trong danh m\u1ee5c <strong>M\u1eb9o<\/strong> c\u1ee7a <strong>Ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng<\/strong> \u0110\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deu match? Agora \u00e9 a hora de brilhar na conversa. Veja como mandar bem logo de in\u00edcio e evitar o famoso &#8220;v\u00e1cuo&#8221;. Introdu\u00e7\u00e3o Voc\u00ea deslizou, deu match e&#8230; agora? A primeira mensagem \u00e9 o momento-chave para transformar aquele match em uma conversa real. E acredite: come\u00e7ar bem pode fazer toda a diferen\u00e7a entre um papo &#8230; <a title=\"Tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean: N\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec (v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec) khi k\u1ebft \u0111\u00f4i\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/primeira-mensagem-o-que-dizer-e-o-que-nao-dizer-ao-dar-match\/\" aria-label=\"\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u1ec1 Primeira Mensagem: O Que Dizer (e o Que N\u00e3o Dizer) ao Dar Match\">\u0111\u1ecdc th\u00eam<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":894,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-893","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dicas"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/893","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=893"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/893\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":895,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/893\/revisions\/895"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/894"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=893"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=893"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/datemobs.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=893"}],"curies":[{"name":"trang web","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}